WOMEN ARE BLOOD-SUCKING,GREEDY PIRAHNA!
Birge-Bytes O.K. Equal time, guys! "Many men are under the misconception that a woman always has to have the last word and this is just not true! A woman never GETS to the last word!" Elliot Sullivan,Comedian
"Declaring "war" on a man requires skills called "Womaneuvers"....you have to sabotage their 3 Basic needs: (1)Withhold FOOD (2) Withhold SEX and(3) withhold the remote!" says Anna Collins, Comedian.
Mrs Birge says: "If you use intelligence and education about each other you won't even HAVE a War! This is MY preferred method in my 50 year marriage to Jerry. i had enough abuse as a child with its accompanying fears to know there must be a better solution than "war" with someone you love and are spending your life with. We can walk arm-in-arm without seeing eye-to-eye on every issue! In the post before this I told you men use brawn and then it's over..
..women use what they actually call today "Relational Aggression" with an arsenal of weapons called condemning,Belittling,Comparing,Labeling,Insulting,Condescending and sarcasm and this is the "short-list"....
We tend to see ourselves through rose colored glasses and we see others
with magnifying glasses! The biggest jerk on EARTH does NOT see themselves in a mirror and then go..."damn, I AM a real jerk!
Over the years of my marriage and teaching I kept wondering WHY my marriage was able to hurdle the obstacles and get stronger.How two naive teenagers with $50.00 total between them & a new baby girl came out on top???! In the up-coming posts I want to share how love can last!
The BEST book I ever read about men/women had the funky title of:
"Men are from Mars/Women from Venus" by Dr. John Gray.
If you really want to know how men and women THINK you will read it!
The other TWO books I highly recommend to you is: "The Wisdom of the
Enneagram" by Risso and Hudson and "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. Of course....the Bible because every problem known to man is in there with all the characters that were far from perfect but coped with life.
"To say my fate is not tied to your fate is like saying, 'your end of the boat is sinking!" (Hugh Downs)
Mrs.B.
"Declaring "war" on a man requires skills called "Womaneuvers"....you have to sabotage their 3 Basic needs: (1)Withhold FOOD (2) Withhold SEX and(3) withhold the remote!" says Anna Collins, Comedian.
Mrs Birge says: "If you use intelligence and education about each other you won't even HAVE a War! This is MY preferred method in my 50 year marriage to Jerry. i had enough abuse as a child with its accompanying fears to know there must be a better solution than "war" with someone you love and are spending your life with. We can walk arm-in-arm without seeing eye-to-eye on every issue! In the post before this I told you men use brawn and then it's over..
..women use what they actually call today "Relational Aggression" with an arsenal of weapons called condemning,Belittling,Comparing,Labeling,Insulting,Condescending and sarcasm and this is the "short-list"....
We tend to see ourselves through rose colored glasses and we see others
with magnifying glasses! The biggest jerk on EARTH does NOT see themselves in a mirror and then go..."damn, I AM a real jerk!
Over the years of my marriage and teaching I kept wondering WHY my marriage was able to hurdle the obstacles and get stronger.How two naive teenagers with $50.00 total between them & a new baby girl came out on top???! In the up-coming posts I want to share how love can last!
The BEST book I ever read about men/women had the funky title of:
"Men are from Mars/Women from Venus" by Dr. John Gray.
If you really want to know how men and women THINK you will read it!
The other TWO books I highly recommend to you is: "The Wisdom of the
Enneagram" by Risso and Hudson and "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. Of course....the Bible because every problem known to man is in there with all the characters that were far from perfect but coped with life.
"To say my fate is not tied to your fate is like saying, 'your end of the boat is sinking!" (Hugh Downs)
Mrs.B.
